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I was born in 1982, graduated from college 3 years and 5 months.coach handbag outlet Currently employed in a large consulting firm, with a group of his monthly salary of 16,000, other income and dividends are not considered. Is the traditional white-collar workers. In Beijing, a set of rooms, 80 levels, mortgage, a car, the Toyota RAV4.


Talk about my experiences it.


I graduated from the country's best schools (two human well-known that one of the schools), school is a partial addition to staying in school to pursue a Ph.D. degree read master little choice of profession. Senior to graduation, I found that PubMed is no different from fairy tale to me - I mixed the whole campus for four years, GPA less than 2.5. More to the point, when I had as a student can not find a quiet heart.


After 500, the four, the National Committee of the candidates words failed, I decided to go abroad. In June 2004, or students staying in school or holding a fresh contract, leaving the three schools, I dragged the luggage back home - a Yangtze River Delta cities, and I still go back to the relationship between file and had delusions of accounts to stay in Beijing.


At the time I was frustrated, I am ashamed to mention in any of my friends in front of XX University graduate, four years ago it was a ring I wore many names.


A year's time, I was unemployed at home, a graduate of the University of XX vagrants, I began to prepare to go abroad. GRE, TOEFL, extremely cumbersome to apply, to go back to school to open Yitang Tang material. Report card on the door which the red door and blue hanging branches rebuilt undoubtedly laughing at me stay there four years, it certainly is my 4-year interplanetary, CS, WC3, basketball, Yanjing, small second, absenteeism, late perfect footnote.


U.S. application is successful, a 3-rate university sent me to the offer. Thus, the well-off families begin to chip in for me - no scholarship studying consumption is huge, especially converted into RMB.


However, a visa does not pass, 05-year U.S. visa to get far so good now, the University offer 3 flow in front of visa officer as to be ignored as the air. And then, worse, his girlfriend of five years with me made a break. (Hit this sentence, just to see her MSN on-line, was actually a pain in my heart) I agree, she was a child in Beijing, the same school, at the same level, we will be together freshman year, when our , are the first love, she considered the most beautiful girls all line bar, dance background. After graduation, she went to four, although thecheap designer handbags work tired, but not limited to professional recruitment, the money for basic wage (graduates 4850 / month) and high overtime (other than normal work 8 hours, 3 times) , a confused graduates, four is heaven.


One year after graduation, she wanted to buy a house, and the ability to pay back the principal down payment, and I unemployed, not name a single cent, West Side Story abroad.


She and I insisted for five years, her parents had to look at me as a son, but we finally divided, when she asked me breaking up, is to discuss the tone of advice: Let it apart for some time ... I agreed, then I, low self-esteem have to be added. And by her side, surrounded by many successful men.


I am disheartened, his mother in his home town had a bank for me to seek the job. I began to cashier his short career. Never had contact with a financial person, along with the teller in the bank cashier's check to learn wire, as they start playing, and even his own desk and computer are not, no one knows I have studied at XX University.


05 I, can escape such a flat attitude, this may be that part of my past I look back, the only place worthy of pride - took a very meager wages, they do odd jobs as a bank teller, and even a few of them, is lower than the term of my college students. I have no chairs, daily guerrilla general, standing behind them to see their ticket into the ticket, a station that day.Wearing a cheap white shirt, wearing work clothes in those tie behind the cashier, and perhaps it is unsightly, and then I, as the biggest dream was actually a set of work clothes, now think about it, find it very funny, but also a little bleak.


I may have been completely devastated by setbacks, from elementary to high school graduation, I successfully get stunning, small rise in the early walks, junior high school increased the exemption, and walked directly to the XX University, coupled with good exercise capacity , height 186, a member of any group is a little before the main basketball team, also looks pretty good ... ... then I do not understand what Fu Xi disaster of the by. God gave me a full 22 years to be added the superior, which is also a. Now, I especially believe this.


A phone call saved me, I voted in the sea of ​​resumes before graduation, as much of a certain year and a half after the world's top 500 multinational group's HR to get the desktop, and browse up, so I get such a chance to work, ecstatic, ecstatic.


I returned to Beijing, have a monthly salary of 2500 (trial) work in the world with the most cattle industry company B, the project implementation.


I went to the company's first day, they begin to travel the three-month project,wholesale coach handbag the company went to a team, 6 people, is one of the projects I support. Suppressed the aggregate of one year seems to be released here.


500 treatment is unique, until now, although I have changed a lot of companies sitting on numerous different desk, there have been difficult to count the travel experience, jobs are a liter up again, can be a single treatment from a business trip to said, and I can not do in 500 companies compared to project implementation. That the difference between three months, we removed the country's 17 cities have higher per person per day and eat a taxi limit the amount of (the 200), live in four, five-star hotel, Double Bed, one a, flight only Air ride every day until 11 o'clock start. This is a setback just shocked to get up in the first graduates, what kind of impact? I instantly lost in them.


Now always think of the word mother said to me, I was lying on the Hilton's big bed, the family received a phone call from my mother that the current situation, where my self-satisfied, just said to me, what you actually No, because what you do not. You have not the time to enjoy, nor to-back, you now need to learn. However, I really got too much self. This is also destined to my first formal job dismal. I always have the character indulge, as a factor, I have now learned to converge them, then I can not, in the dark of the year, changes in the environment at the moment as different as day, it is a the impact of upstart species, I feel finally got rid of bad luck, so I indulge eat, drink, on key issues with team leader contrary. Looking back to, then how horrible I was, not least of professionalism, I am sorry to take their own salaries, generous benefits provided by the company I'm sorry, but I live up to the platform that you want to develop.


Not surprisingly, my first job on my business trip, you die - I did not pass the probationary period, no matter what the direct leadership of the VP for the opportunity, I was swept out directly. In fact, I total in the company's office had not filled a week.


First job, but not because of negligence by the probation period, 500 companies, this is my biggest frustration of all time, until now, I have not let any one who know me know Zhefan experience, I think, I never said to them, this is my 25 years of a life in the darkest deep gap, no bottom.


I was beaten back to the prototype, so I started Dianpei, like all northern drift, like floating in Beijing, the file is fesco thrown out, I put it in a Beijing talent. I can not tell parents that I was fired, and I told them I was in Beijing a very good, very favorable working conditions, learn a lot every day. The truth is, I have three meals a day difficult to sustain. I can not find my friends in Beijing, my buddy, my classmates, because I can not reveal the status of my distress, and they work more than a year, had a small economic base, I did not come together the luxury consumption may have up.


I dropped out of the original rent a house, find the North Fourth Ring Road outside a 600 with two bedrooms sharing a house I live in a small room, no heating. Living in a big room is a pair of newly graduated students, now I do not lost their desire to think of my life there have been two such people, this time as they like I always do not want to put the memory desktop stuff.


I started looking for work. November 2005, the day has been cold, I likejuicy couture handbags the most vagrant, as unemployment as university graduates, as most of Ersan Liu, poured into the talent market. No computer, send your resume in the Internet cafe every day, 3 months salary I was soon spent, so I started changing the law to the money at home, many reasons, such as the one to pay half the rent, not enough money.


Some resume to get a response, and more resumes gone unacknowledged. A non-fresh, with no work experience, no professional expertise of graduates is difficult to have the company on him. The response to my resume, it is basically some small companies.


I went to the interview, and this was my first experience to numerous strange, harboring in residential area in the small workshop-based company, which I can not imagine the times in college work. Of course, I also saw to the liar, the name of recruit actors, entertainers recruit on behalf of the real line to defraud the company. There is an insurance salesman, I almost into line, I was faced with a person's dignity is another group of people how the process of the heel, the foot of that face is still full of Bel sincere smile.


There is a lot of local public relations firm expressed interest to me, they wanted me to develop into a copy. The procedure is strict and complicated candidates, I passed the written test, written in English, English oral interview with the AD, I realized that the distance climbed deep gap is only one step away. This step can be scaled to the final but did not.


General Manager and I want to talk to her surname Han. I sat in her spacious office, she only ask me a question, what is your view for the public relations industry. I am at a loss, I ask this question again today if I even can not immediately pick up a pen to write the idea of ​​more than 2000 words of comment, but two years ago, on this issue, my head is only empty space. Han always left me a job, let me go back and use ppt to write a proposal, on a simple press conference.


In the cafe where I worked for a whole day, according to their own ideas put together a ppt, it is today I can not imagine an amateur thing, there is no incoherent mess, there are no details of possible logical relationship. Then I can be satisfied as to put the "masterpiece" was sent out. I think Korea always received as a ppt, and now I feel about the same as it.But I failed the interview.


I never could not carry, Cary fewer than 300 dollars, I absolutely can not tell any of their own home, the real situation. Thus, when there is a small company agreed to hire me, I could be so grateful to God for giving me a job. I am in Internet cafes, burst into tears, at least, this is a company office in the office. According to their vice president to say, XX University is considered a key through the interview, oh my god ...

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